Through The Eyes of a Woman Scorned

Food for Thought

Casual sex, lust, and dysfunctional relationships seem to have become the norm around here. What happened to the value and integrity of saving your prize possession and falling in love with Mr. or Mrs. Right? Having casual sex doesn’t keep you mentally or physically satisfied. If the person you meet has other intentions in mind, like a real relationship, do you think it’s fair leading someone one when they want a future? After a while we call ourselves returning the favor to the man or woman who hurt us in the past and now our heart has become numb, unable to love. Is this the life? Soul ties are attachments that we carry just like luggage. Imagine how it feels every time you date someone new and you are unable to focus in on the one you say you love… not good. Hmmm..

Genesis 2:18, And the Lord said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make an help meet for him.”

We know this is what God said, but people have abused their flesh and made it a hot mess regarding relationships. We have got it all backwards. So let’s see how much damage has been done. Is there really love after all? Looking through the eyes of the woman scorned.

Introduction

What a tangled web of deceit that develops when a woman who has been hurt by so many men. The mind has drifted into a fantasy world of pure lust. She has decided that she is sick of men doing what they want. No one says anything; they just dog women out. Some men love the player life and quiet as it’s kept, women have adapted the same life style, the notch on the belt mentality. Hmmm… not a good feeling to be thought of as just meat, but it’s happening more and more. A woman’s way of thinking is, if they can do it so can we.

More women opt out of marriage more than the men now! Stacia is a piece of work and through her trials, dysfunctional relationships, God is going to make it very clear that her ways are not His ways and step right on in. Tonight is party night and Stacia is going out to find her Mr. Right just right now to ease her polluted mind.

She steps out, Ladies, ladies, ladies! Holla if you hear me, I need a man and I need one now! Tonight is the night. Yes ma’am and I’m ready. I’m Stacia Yvonne Williams; better known as eat’em up, chew’um up, and spit’em out! That’s right, I don’t like men. The dogs that they are! Yes, I do what I do, baby! And I am not concerned with anyone’s feelings except my own, okay. It’s all about pleasure, power, and the wonderful feeling of sex, sex, and more sex. Oooohh yeah!

Hey, the fellas have been doing it for years so why can’t we? My thinking is…. no man is safe. Wake up and remember I am in charge. Oh did I mention I am a professional woman so, the ability to get what I want is there. Don’t get it twisted sweetheart. I also have one child, my own place, and strongly dislike commitment. I am tired of being hurt. Been there, done that! People just come to use you and they think it’s okay. Well I am here to let you know it’s not going down like that anymore people!

My girl Kenya and I have been best friends since we were kids. She is independent as well and works with me at the law firm. She is a beautiful woman. I wonder what she’s thinking at times though. She has been hurt but hasn’t seemed to let the men get to her. She’s had some long-term relationships over the years while we lived in Boston, but even when they didn’t work she’s mastered this celibacy thing. Gag me will ya’. Are you kidding me? Please! Although the miss goody two shoes at times, she’s my homie. I love her but she drives me crazy with her pep talks. They say thats what friends are for, shoot, I have to help her out. I can’t stand it some time. Stacia don’t do this, Stacia don’t do that. Stacia, again! Girl, keep them legs closed, she says. Blah, blah, blah! I know she loves me, but I am strong willed and have a point to make. My point is… keep reading, you’ll see.

Kenya doesn’t date the way I do; only when she feels like it, but me, I date quite often, ya’ heard! You know what I mean right? I desire to be pleased and it happens when I want it to so don’t get it twisted! So watch out because I’m not in love, you’re just a booty call! The men are in for a rude awakening! Oh you didn’t know well you better ask somebody!

About the Author

Nancy M. Sellers O’Bryan has done it! She is mastering her authentic author skills through the books she has written. Bondage to Freedom, the touching life story of where God has brought her from has captured the attention of Dr. Juanita Bynum, and Dr. Pamela Jones; Say What News online magazine, Conversations Live!, and countless others. She is beginning to break the mold of bondage in her life by giving back to women, men, and children by expressing and ministering to people through her books. She is using her empowerment skills throughout her neighborhood and is on her way to the world! She is pursuing her dream as a writer, and motivational speaker, play writer, and more! One current achievement is she helped design the newsletter as the writer/graphic designer of Rural & Migrant Ministries. It is an online newsletter that shares awareness regarding migrant farm workers and minorities as well as community events. She previously spoke at the TWINKS Social club in November 2009 with topics based on Domestic Violence and won them over with a standing ovation on her survival. Yesterday or Today is her second book, embracing forgiveness in all areas of ones life.  Through the Eyes of a Woman Scorned is her third book that tackles the promiscuity rampage the world is on. Having come from a promiscuous background she has depicted a fictional setting in this book that leads a young woman who was much like herself to salvation. Change is in the air! She is going to be entered into a few book clubs, appear on talk shows, and has vowed to make a difference in this world by the Grace of God. Her goal is to touch the hearts and souls of the younger generation across the world. The mark to empower is in her blood. Reading is fundamental. If you read hers books, there is a guarantee that change will come, you won’t go wrong. Knowledge is power and forgiveness is even powerful. Success is the ladder to helping others and not yourself.

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